Saturday, June 26, 2010

"What do women REALLY want?" ....a weekly contest in blogadda sponsored by Pringoo

I would like to start with what I want as a woman and would not like to represent the entire gender because we all are different individuals with our own set of beliefs and values. I wouldn't like to represent my best friend even in this matter as I think that we are not in love with the same man .......and we both possibly can't have the same set of wants in spite of all the common interests that we have which made us 'best friends' with each other. Interestingly, that reveals every woman wants are different from each other. It would be coincidental that the things that I want for myself may resemble with another woman.
First of all, I want a man who knows the worth of  my love for him. He needs to show that I am his first priority and that he would do anything for me throughout his life. He can win me with a rose and his words along with it will show....the depth of his love for me.  He should choose to be with me throughout my life even when my beauty will gradually wouldn't suffice. The wrinkles shouldn't fade away his love in any way ...in other words, he should be in love with my soul from the very first day!! I' ll always try to understand his mind and would gladly provide him the space anytime.....but in spite of all these I know...emotions will get overflowed, but I wouldn't mind to say a 'sorry' first and would like him too to initiate when situations arise.I would like him to be the 'man' of my heart who would gladly say," Everybody get married first! To love a woman is life's finest gift and to win her love is not very hard  you see. All you have to do is to say everyday, that she means a lot to you in a very simple way". She wouldn't expect any diamonds or any expensive gift, if you make her realize that she is more precious than these. Today's woman doesn't expect any diamond from you because she is capable of buying her own diamonds too.
Apologies to those who donot agree and thank you anyway for reading me......
Last but not the least, what woman really wants is 'love' from you which she sees transparently when you really mean it too.

15 comments:

  1. Well said.
    Some of the points are very true.

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  2. very truely said,u spoke what every woman's heart felt.And to add to it I would like it when my hubby would ask me a "sorry" which never happened,that would mean a thousand dollars for me!They dont seem to understand the feelings of a woman ,and r lost in their own world!

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  3. You spoke for woman.. do you know what an average Indian man wants?

    He wants a wife who will look pretty whole through his life time, who is always at his beck and call, one who never complaints, takes care of all things related to home and kids, faithful to him even when he is not so, worships his parents and family even when he say not so good things about her parents and family...

    Our wants are different... so where can you find such a man. Forgive me for being cynical...

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  4. whether men or women, we need to understand wholeheartedly that..."If we have no musical soul of our own how can we understand the manifestations of the musical souls of others"....we can get what we deserve if we are with the right person at right time.

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  5. Excellent! I agree with everything you have said. God bless.

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  6. Yoou make some good point, diamond is nothing compared to a good man. May God give you the desires of your heart:)

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  7. agreed dear ,all that a woman want that his man love her back like she does.
    lovely writing

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  8. Well said. To love soul that is the real essence of a person is the most important aspect of any relationship I am a musician who blogs about creativity. Please visit me at freetospeakblog.blogspot.com I would love to hear from you.

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  9. Thank you all for reading my thoughts and penning down your views :) Thanks once again :)

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  10. Aren't the things you wanted have become quite scarce now a days?? In this materialistic world, you seldom go by the actual definition of the words. Love has lost its meaning. Now ppl define love as it suits them and try to become happy. Being both of you are well to do, there are certain logic behind what you want, but will it be the same, when one of you is not independent. Sometimes the thin line between love, infatuation, sympathy gets lost.

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  11. It reflects my sentiments too..."He should choose to be with me throughout my life even when my beauty will gradually wouldn't suffice" nice one !!

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  12. @Mridul da..... Everybody's perception of love is different and people do change too.It is not "the being well to do" that matters for a woman. It is the set of words that you use from the depth of your heart in the right time that matters the most for a woman.There maybe some exceptions but a good number of women would agree to this nowadays.
    Evolution is inevitable and so are the emotions of people but you just cannot blame only women for such a change.

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  13. @Hovercraft...
    Thank you for sharing your view :)

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